Friday, January 28, 2011

Iraqi govt urges women not to marry insurgents

Some Iraqis are very naive.

NPR: 'A spate of attacks around Iraq last week showed that the Sunni insurgency is still a force to be reckoned with.

The movement started with Saddam loyalists and militants from neighboring countries whose aim was to fight Americans. Then they turned on their Shiite countrymen.

Now they seek to destabilize what they see as a U.S.-backed, Shiite-led government.

Caught up in all of this are the wives: the women who provide the insurgents with food, shelter, children — and sometimes help. Now that militants have been caught or killed, it's the women who are left behind.

One Woman's Story

At first, the young mother is leery. Twenty-one years old and stubborn, Um Salah comes from a traditional tribal village in Diyala province, a former al-Qaida stronghold about an hour north of Baghdad. She refuses to provide her full name.

When we ask about her husband, she has only praise.

"He was a good guy," she says. "No one would criticize him for anything."

But we know different. We know Um Salah's husband was a high-ranking member of the Islamic State of Iraq, the local branch of al-Qaida.

We also know he was accused of helping kill Um Salah's father, and that he was handed over to authorities by her own brother.

Eventually, Um Salah admits that her husband was part of what she calls the resistance.

She shows us a record of her marriage. It was performed by a religious cleric. But the record is only a stained piece of notebook paper, with no date and no signature.

What this means is that Um Salah is not legally married — and that her 2 1/2-year-old boy, Salah, is not registered with the government. No registration means no food-ration card, no right to visit the hospital, no school.

Um Salah says that with her husband now in jail and accused of being a terrorist, she has no money and no hope. While she talks, the boy hangs on her shoulder. She starts to cry, and her mother interrupts: "Sometimes when she is so fed up with her situation, she would just pray ... 'God, take my life, OK, let me die, with my son, now,' " her mother says.

Marriage To Insurgents

Aid groups say there are more than a hundred women like Um Salah in Diyala province alone.

With that in mind, the Iraqi government recently launched an anti-al-qaida media campaign that urges women not to marry insurgents. Marry a terrorist, and your children will have no rights, the campaign goes. Marry a terrorist, and you'll be shunned by society.

The program, broadcast on state TV, featured two women who said they were forced to marry foreign fighters. One woman says her uncle arranged a marriage with a Palestinian-born militant from Syria. The man was was later killed in a raid by Iraqi troops.

About 20 women who once were married to militants have recently been detained. Ministry of Defense spokesman Mohammad al Askari says he finds it hard to believe that any of them are totally innocent.

"If you live with someone ... you know his reactions, his mentality, his ideology, the way he reacts. So you should know something about him," he says.

Um Mohammad, who declined to give her full name for fear of bringing shame to her family, agrees. She is also from Diyala province. And she was also married to an insurgent.

She says the people in her village willingly joined the insurgency because fighters promised to rid Iraq of the American invaders.

"Those guys had a very sweet talk," she says. "They were all pious people who prayed and fasted."

Um Mohammad says the women naturally helped these men, whom they saw as holy.

"They would hide men," she says. "When the men wanted to move, they would disguise them in women's clothes and help them. If someone would come and ask, 'Where is he?' they would say, 'Oh, we don't know,' while he is hiding in her house." '

3 comments :

Iraqi Mojo said...

'A spam message wishing a Russian woman happy new year may very well have killed her, and saved hundreds of intended targets, according to an account by The Telegraph's Moscow correspondent, Andrew Osborn.

The woman, dubbed "The Black Widow," who authorities suspect was part of the same militant group that killed 35 people at Moscow's Domodedovo airport on Monday, was at a house preparing for the attack, which would have occurred on New Year's Eve at Red Square. Instead, the woman's mobile phone, which served as the device's detonator, was activated hours early by a spam message wishing her a happy new year. She was killed, while a man and woman also in the house and suspected of being accomplices, escaped.

Russian security forces told The Telegraph that phones are usually kept off until the last minute for detonation, but in this case, "the terrorists were careless." '

Maury said...

It sounds like you're ready to strap that vest on Dolly. 72 celestial virgins with strap-on dildoes would be quite a sight in Paradise. You go girl!

C.H. said...

It sure sounds like it Maury...God willing, she'll accidentally blow herself up in the bathroom.